We have a guest writer this month.Will Horton Phd is a well known NLP Hypnotist who has written many articles and books. He has been honored many times by the National Guild of Hypnotists.
It is a great honor to present this to you and I hope Dr. Horton does not mind the few punctuation changes I made.
What Do People Find Attractive?
this is universal and it opens your energy.
2. Listen and Skip the Small Talk
Ask questions about the person you are with, or what is going on. Ask meaningful questions. Remember people like talking about themselves and their lives, so ask.
Mirror and Match, we like people who are like us and rate them more attractive. We also rate them as nicer, and smarter.
4. Be funny
This does not mean jokes, a light hearted attitude and laugh at yourself. Recent research points to people growing tired of people taking being serious all the time.
5. Dress nice
What we were told is still true, dress to impress.
6. Be polite
Manners are attractive
7. Talk about your Kids, Partner, or Pets
It lets people know you commit to things long term. It also shows a care for something other than you. Note to men, women rate men who are loving and caring to family and pets as MUCH MORE Attractive.
8. Have friends and colleagues
The lone wolf is not attractive to 98% of people. We are social creatures and sociability is an important skill.
9. Listen to current music
If you only listen to classic, it dates you and subconsciously says to others you are closed minded to new things. ( It also means your old, lol).
10. Be passionate about what you love, people, places, and things
People love passion even if they disagree with it. Most people long for more passion so when someone has it, it is attractive.
There you go and ALL these things are under your control, enjoy being attractive.
Please share with family, friends and strangers.
Ruth Carr RN, Ma, CH can be reached at Behavior Options Hypnosis 203-915-0480